Let Go of that Toxic Relationship - This is Your Sign!!!
If you are here now, this may be a sign to end that relationship and start healing yourself. I know it will be difficult for you, so let me help you start changing your situation. It's not too late to begin, but if you miss this opportunity, it will surely be harder for you to turn away from that toxic relationship.
I know it's normal for couples to face challenges, but ask yourself, "Did the problems you both went through help strengthen your relationship?" If many years have passed and the opposite has happened, aren't you just hoping for nothing?
Don't wait until you wake up one day not knowing who you are, not fulfilling your dreams, and even destroying your relationship with your loved ones before deciding to take actions.
If you know that it will be difficult for you to move on after turning away from him, these tips can help you:
1. If you can't throw away everything that reminds you of him, just put them in a place where you won't see them. And when you do that, try not to look at those things until you're okay. And when you are emotionally healed, it's up to you whether to keep them or throw them away.
2. Cut off communication with him. Block him on your social media accounts, and even on your phone. It's even better to temporarily deactivate your social media accounts, especially if you have many mutual friends. This can help you forget him.
3. Avoid talking about him as much as possible. Tell your friends and family not to mention anything about him. If he is always on your mind, it will be harder for you to let go.
4. You're human, so it's normal to remember him. I know what you're thinking, so control yourself. Don't call, text, or message him and then say it was a wrong send. If I were you, I would divert my attention to things that will give me peace of mind. Keep doing so until it's easy for you to accept that he's gone.
5. What if he reaches out to you or tries to get back together? That's up to you, but I just want to remind you that he was the reason for your tears. So think carefully. If you do give him a chance, maybe he needs to prove to you that he has changed before you let him back into your life?
6. Can't handle it? Want to cry? Don't hold back because it's normal. It won't disrupt the healing process.
7. You can't do it alone, so surround yourself with people who will make you laugh or lighten up your mood. Just avoid people who will drag you down instead of lifting you up.
8. Did I forget something? Oh, I did. This is the time to spend a lot of time on yourself. Maybe you go for a haircut, buy new clothes... Pamper yourself because no one else will do it for you but you. Remember that when you are used to taking care of yourself, you will not waste your time with people who will just take you for granted.
I hope these tips help, and when you've moved on, let the experience be a lesson NOT TO SETTLE FOR LESS.
I created 'The Spirits Talk' to channel the messages of my benevolent spirit guides in order to provide enlightenment to those who need it. If you are going through something and need advice, you can fill out the form below. I will do my best to provide an answer to it in 'The Spirits Talk'.
