What to Expect in a Tarot Reading
There are so many Tarot readers these days. Most of the time, you try out different ones before finding someone who truly matches your vibe. But if you still haven’t found the right reader for you, here are a few signs that can help you figure out if the reading was really worth it.
1. Cold Reading
Cold reading happens when the reader bases their insights on your responses while asking questions. But those with real intuitive ability know the golden rule. Give the reading first before asking the client anything or letting them share. This helps avoid bias and prevents the reading from becoming just a series of guesses.
2. Confusing or Inconsistent Messages
If something the reader says doesn’t make sense or seems contradictory, don’t hesitate to ask for clarification. If they become defensive or irritated, it’s up to you if you still want to continue the session. It’s normal for messages to occasionally come out unclear, especially if the reader is tired. But if they truly care, they’ll acknowledge it, apologize, and correct the message.
3. Using Fear to Pressure You
An ethical Tarot reader will never try to scare you just to sell you charms or rituals. If this ever happens, you can always say you’ll think about it or that your budget is limited, even if that’s not really the case. If they become too pushy or start harassing you, it’s okay to take legal action or report them to the proper authorities.
4. Blaming You for Everything
Sure, we all play a role in what happens in our lives, but it’s not right for a reader to make you feel like everything is your fault. The goal of a reading is to bring you peace of mind, not guilt. It’s okay if they offer constructive feedback, as long as it’s shared respectfully and comes with guidance on how to handle things. Empathy and respect should still be there.
5. All Problems, No Solutions
Sometimes it’s impressive when they pinpoint your issue right away. But ask yourself, did they offer any solutions? A good reading should feel uplifting, even when dealing with heavy topics. If you leave the session more confused than when you started, that reader might not be the right one for you.
6. More Misses Than Hits
No Tarot reader is perfect. Sometimes their connection is off or they’re simply exhausted, which can affect the quality of the reading. Real practitioners know when to say no if they’re not in the right state to do a session. But if someone’s only after the money, they’ll still accept readings even when they’re not physically or spiritually ready. If this happens to you, it’s okay to give honest feedback. And if they take it negatively, that might be your sign to look for someone else who’s a better fit.
READ: Tarot Reading: Real Guidance or Just Guessing?
